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Mosegh
02-22-2016, 12:10 PM
I like a girl and she likes me back but my friend also likes her.
I want to ask her out but I am afraid I'll be a terrible boyfriend and he would be better at being a good boyfriend then I would but she doesn't like him like that and if I ask her out he'll hate me and omg.

support

Malevolent
02-22-2016, 12:16 PM
I'm not good with relationships but I can do my best to tell you what I would do and try to leave things open for you to decide. I mean for one, if your friend hated you for dating the same girl he likes then was he really your friend to begin with? But to talk to you about relationships, do what you are comfortable with. You never know how well something can go until you try and if something does happen that causes you two to break up? Then learn from the relationship. Move on knowing it probably wasn't meant to be. Learn to deal with life. Not hide from it. But if you two do live on with a great relationship, well I don't think you would have anything to worry about.

In the end follow your heart, but listen to your mind. I hope this helps though I can never be sure. Good Luck.

Sk8ter
02-22-2016, 12:28 PM
bros before hoes. It's better if you don't date her. It will probably ruin your friendship with your niqqa. And relationships aren't very fun when you can't even drive or afford anything nice.

Aunos
02-22-2016, 12:39 PM
Ask your mom for support, she is the best.

This photo proves it.

Trolled
02-22-2016, 12:40 PM
The rising trend of things related to love is quite... awkward.

Maybe people thinks that the forum is a good place to seek opinions.

You like her, then go ask. It might be possible that she likes you. Mutual relationship.

BRUHAHAHAHA. I'm mad. FIGHT FOR LOVE.


Just do what you want.

xlightswitch
02-22-2016, 01:32 PM
Just go for it. You like her, she likes you, she doesn't like your friend.

Aunos
02-22-2016, 01:36 PM
Like I always say...

JUST DO IT.

DONT LET YOUR DREAMS BE DREAMS.

dorie2739
02-22-2016, 01:40 PM
I'm not good with relationships but I can do my best to tell you what I would do and try to leave things open for you to decide. I mean for one, if your friend hated you for dating the same girl he likes then was he really your friend to begin with? But to talk to you about relationships, do what you are comfortable with. You never know how well something can go until you try and if something does happen that causes you two to break up? Then learn from the relationship. Move on knowing it probably wasn't meant to be. Learn to deal with life. Not hide from it. But if you two do live on with a great relationship, well I don't think you would have anything to worry about.

In the end follow your heart, but listen to your mind. I hope this helps though I can never be sure. Good Luck.

^^^^^
Couldn't have said it any better. :hat:

Nightcorean
02-22-2016, 01:41 PM
Recommend you to just say it.

The number of this threads are really... ugh. ~shivers~

Spotlight
02-22-2016, 05:32 PM
If you don't think you're ready, don't. If you know you are, go for it. That's all there is, no magic or anything else.

Tempting
02-22-2016, 05:34 PM
You have to tell her as soon as possible. If your friend can't accept your feelings, then it means that he/she can't accept you, and you should either wait for them to calm down, or stop being his/her friend.

Frozenpotato_
02-22-2016, 08:55 PM
Date her you and you friend at the same time if you know what I mean ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)

xlightswitch
02-22-2016, 10:47 PM
Like I always say...

JUST DO IT.

DONT LET YOUR DREAMS BE DREAMS.
Like I always say...

LET THE JOKE DIE.

JUST LET THE JOKE CRIPPLE AND DIE.

GummiBear64
02-23-2016, 03:14 AM
lmao do it dweeb

grapezzzz19
02-23-2016, 03:15 AM
This whole thread makes me cringe

Prolegger
02-23-2016, 03:21 AM
Ask your mom for support, she is the best.

This photo proves it.

LOL hahah:yeah::yeah::yeah:

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Forget about girls! Friends are more Important believe me!!:wave::wave::wave::wave::wave:

Prolegger
02-23-2016, 03:23 AM
Date her you and you friend at the same time if you know what I mean ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)

:sweatdrop::sweatdrop::sweatdrop::sweatdrop::sweat drop:

SilversoulX
02-23-2016, 05:47 AM
JUST DO IT! Some people dream of success, while you're gonna wake up and WORK HARD AT IT!

Edwardson97
02-23-2016, 05:55 AM
Go for it. Simple as that.

capnkrunch
02-23-2016, 06:19 AM
That was the same scenario with me as well, I finally asked my girl out on Valentine's Day last year, and ever since nothing went wrong.

Mosegh
02-24-2016, 08:38 AM
Just do it to her.

What? You're sick.

Josh289
02-24-2016, 08:54 AM
Throughout my own lifetime I have experienced the entire relationship thing. After a while I have picked up on some helpful tips and advice. Without further delay here's some useful information regarding relationships..

Have your own life. If you tend to fall into the "friend zone," this will be especially important. Real girls (girls with a strong sense of purpose and self-worth) don't like guys who have no lives or who cling to them like plastic wrap . Some girls do like that, but for all the wrong reasons either they're insecure and needy for attention, or they're control freaks who have a need for dominating guys. Unless you want to sign up for one of those scenarios, focus filling your time with your own friendships, interests, hobbies, and goals. This also gives her a chance to do something with you without it becoming a date.

Speak to her. It's unlikely a girl will be at all interested in you if she doesn't know you exist. Make an effort to talk to her, even if approaching her seems scary at first. Highlight your compatibility as friends and more by talking about hobbies and interests that you have in common. Become her friend she can't get close to you unless you're friends.

Telling jokes or funny stories is a classic way to make a person laugh, but not the only way. Be bold and think of some antics that will make her laugh, like clowning around. Find out which are her favourite comedians, funny movies, or sitcoms. Watch them with her. Tell her to dare you to do something, then do it (as long as it's not illegal, of course). Laughter will come by itself if both of you are relaxed and enjoying each others company. The more she laughs, the more she wants and she will want more.

Be her friend. Girls don't just fall for random strangers. (Well, some do, but the relationship never goes very far!) Start being friendly to her in a non-invasive way. Get to know her and begin hanging out as friends.
If you're in the same lecture or tutorial as her, find out her name. Every time she walks into the room, smile and wave at her. Sometimes this is all it takes for a young woman to notice you. At the same time though, don't do this too often; It will just end up looking like you're obsessed with her. If you're worried, greet some of your girl friends as they enter, too. If she doesn't seem to see you, when she walks by, just say "Hi _______," in a friendly way, but don't interrupt the class or any conversation she's holding.
If she's shy, she might just smile back, so don't take this as a sign that she doesn't like you.
If you want your relationship to move ahead faster, don't get stuck in the quicksand - that is the 'Friend Zone'. Sometimes a girl won't go out with you because she's afraid if the relationship ends badly, she'll lose your friendship! To start moving things along, be a little flirty; a woman will only be intimate with a man she knows, trusts and cares about, and this can only be achieved with taking the time to get to know her through friendly chat. However, don't come on too quickly - part of the fun of the relationship is the chase - and have patience. Girls HATE being forced into something, especially on the relationship front.

CityBanker
02-24-2016, 09:12 AM
I'd highly recommend u finding out if she likes u first. If she does, id say JUST DO IT! Unless ure sure that ur bff will come knocking at ur door with a knife and shouting IM GONNA KILL U!! I suggest if u wanna do it even if u know that he's probably gonna murder u, guard ur door and hold a shotgun. PREPARE URSLEF!

Festivity
02-24-2016, 10:25 AM
Good luck dude. Don't mess up like I did.
She totally hates me.... now.
:cry:

Romai Mori
02-24-2016, 11:40 AM
Don't think that your a terrible boyfriend. Fake Confidence or Real Confidence is my thing..

Plus i have been on that situation before when multiple boys asked me out on a date. Free food i guess :crazy:
What i did to them is be their girlfriend for a week and see how it turns out, I didn't pick any of them but they were fine with it. They'll keep improving for me i guess.. But some already found girlfriends too :scratch:.

Try to ask your friend if he's alright with you asking the girl out on a date, If not then you should respect his decision.

ModernSkies
02-25-2016, 02:31 AM
I like a girl and she likes me back but my friend also likes her.
I want to ask her out but I am afraid I'll be a terrible boyfriend and he would be better at being a good boyfriend then I would but she doesn't like him like that and if I ask her out he'll hate me and omg.

support

Not to hate, but women like confident people. :whistling:

NopTryu
02-26-2016, 01:20 PM
Go ahead for it dude.Regret doing it is better than regret not doing it.Trust me.

I was once closed my eyes and when I re-opened my eyes I found myself in the attic.I saw an old man there.He was wearing an old green coat.He told me "Don't be so stubborn.You cannot do anything" but I replied him "Yes I can,and I will".He disappeared.I know what's his name.The name is 'fear' and it seem I won again.Don't let he win.Do anything you want dude.

Mosegh
02-26-2016, 11:59 PM
The feels when you get friend zoned.

GummiBear64
02-27-2016, 11:24 AM
The feels when you get friend zoned.

i understand the feels lmao.
it's like a knife getting plunged deep into your heart.
feels good.

Areodax
02-27-2016, 11:26 AM
Set your priorities.

Study first, girls later.

GummiBear64
02-27-2016, 11:27 AM
Set your priorities.

Study first, girls later.

With all due respect Aero, you have some weird priorities.

Girls are clearly the important ones.

Areodax
02-27-2016, 11:30 AM
With all due respect Aero, you have some weird priorities.

Girls are clearly the important ones.

Thanks for the laugh, pleb.

Being a wizard is better than having a gf.

GummiBear64
02-27-2016, 11:35 AM
Thanks for the laugh, pleb.

Being a wizard is better than having a gf.

it really isn't.
i mean, if you have a gf you can waste money on unnecessary stuff but if you are a wizard you don't need money.
see?

AngelicVoice
02-27-2016, 03:32 PM
bros before hoes. It's better if you don't date her. It will probably ruin your friendship with your niqqa. And relationships aren't very fun when you can't even drive or afford anything nice.

I don't know why but i agree with you,
they might ruin your friendship or the relation you have if it goes wrong with 1 move.


The feels when you get friend zoned.

LOL I know this........ lol go to world yakfilms read bulletin board xD


Anyways,
just think logic, it's just a game, maybe if you're older it can be serious relationship.
but hey, don't ruin your friendship just becarefull and stay best friends.

If you really like her,
then just go for it, don't give it up, ever.

but realize that it isn't real life.
but i know some ppl are married from game like Perfect World and other MMORPG
but i'm not gonna discuss this here haha.

And remember, ALWAYS be yourself.
don't change for a girl/boy
if she doesn't like you or whatever, You Will Deserve Better Then he/she.

Trust me..
You Will.

Linkoftime
02-27-2016, 03:35 PM
Use this rag *Hands rag*

always works

GummiBear64
02-27-2016, 11:08 PM
I don't know why but i agree with you,
they might ruin your friendship or the relation you have if it goes wrong with 1 move.



LOL I know this........ lol go to world yakfilms read bulletin board xD


Anyways,
just think logic, it's just a game, maybe if you're older it can be serious relationship.
but hey, don't ruin your friendship just becarefull and stay best friends.

If you really like her,
then just go for it, don't give it up, ever.

but realize that it isn't real life.
but i know some ppl are married from game like Perfect World and other MMORPG
but i'm not gonna discuss this here haha.

And remember, ALWAYS be yourself.
don't change for a girl/boy
if she doesn't like you or whatever, You Will Deserve Better Then he/she.

Trust me..
You Will.

lmao what do you mean it isn't real life?
he never stated it was in a game haha

AngelicVoice
02-28-2016, 02:48 PM
lmao what do you mean it isn't real life?
he never stated it was in a game haha

:whistling::whistling::whistling::whistling: o

Areodax
02-28-2016, 03:35 PM
it really isn't.
i mean, if you have a gf you can waste money on unnecessary stuff but if you are a wizard you don't need money.
see?

>wasting money

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