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LittleSirP
02-12-2014, 10:35 AM
So, it's that time of the year again... It's nearly Valentines.
I wanna know if you guys approve of me...


Asking my friend out.
Should I really do it? I dunno... If she says yes, then it's official.
If not, then there are two possible scenarios.
If she turns me down, I can still be friends with her (Which is good,) but there will be an awkward relationship between us.(Which is bad.)
If she turns me down, AND she doesn't talk to me, then that's the worst one.
This is my first time doing this... HELP ME.
-Little

Lunarfrost
02-12-2014, 11:39 AM
So, it's that time of the year again... It's nearly Valentines.
I wanna know if you guys approve of me...


Asking my friend out.
Should I really do it? I dunno... If she says yes, then it's official.
If not, then there are two possible scenarios.
If she turns me down, I can still be friends with her (Which is good,) but there will be an awkward relationship between us.(Which is bad.)
If she turns me down, AND she doesn't talk to me, then that's the worst one.
This is my first time doing this... HELP ME.
-Little

Just do it! Although the problem is, I'm the one ALWAYS being asked out, not the other... :l

Well, basically from what the other guys have been doing to me, I'd say you need to ask her out like: "Hey, so it's nearly Valentines. Wanna go somewhere with me?" It's more casual, which is PERFECT, because you are friends.

Also, you completely forgot one thing! There are THREE scenarios! The third being her accepting ;)

Brys
02-12-2014, 12:52 PM
So, it's that time of the year again... It's nearly Valentines.
I wanna know if you guys approve of me...


Asking my friend out.
Should I really do it? I dunno... If she says yes, then it's official.
If not, then there are two possible scenarios.
If she turns me down, I can still be friends with her (Which is good,) but there will be an awkward relationship between us.(Which is bad.)
If she turns me down, AND she doesn't talk to me, then that's the worst one.
This is my first time doing this... HELP ME.
-Little


Dude go for it because if you don't that will be regret that will follow you through your life (maybe)

Tehepic333
02-12-2014, 02:12 PM
You never know if you don't try.

Jeremy012
02-12-2014, 02:27 PM
You sly dog ;). 11 yr old? Going out already? Such bravery

Dodo Wizard
02-12-2014, 03:28 PM
So, it's that time of the year again... It's nearly Valentines.
I wanna know if you guys approve of me...


Asking my friend out.
Should I really do it? I dunno... If she says yes, then it's official.
If not, then there are two possible scenarios.
If she turns me down, I can still be friends with her (Which is good,) but there will be an awkward relationship between us.(Which is bad.)
If she turns me down, AND she doesn't talk to me, then that's the worst one.
This is my first time doing this... HELP ME.
-Little Well, I'm over 400 years old. So I say..Idk.

TheDarkWolf
02-13-2014, 04:17 AM
Being "asked out" when you're young can be disturbing. No stories. So... I don't think so.

Brennanber
02-13-2014, 04:35 AM
Id stay close friends at least until you are a little older. Because parent approval at your age would be tough. And you will be judged "clueless" by some because you are a little young to date.
Hey the more longer you are closer friends i say the better. But don't stick at one place or she will probably start thinking of you as a "friend". Just keep escalating.

Potato
02-13-2014, 06:10 AM
I would recommend trying to find out if she feels the same way. Talk to her "trusted" friends and ask if what she thinks about you.

TIMTAM
02-13-2014, 06:49 AM
Personally (You may not agree) but if I am ever not 70% sure that they will say "Yes" then I just wait until I am pretty sure. There's no harm in just waiting. Just make sure it's the right time and you'll be fine (:

Good luck (:

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Also I just realised you were 11, maybe try and wait a little while until it's the perfect time. It's not like you're 40 and desperate XD. Based on experience, usually Primary School relationships don't really go too well, maybe wait till your 13? But it really depends on whether you are ready and things like is she going to your high school and things like that.

Would you rather wait 2 days and ask her out and only last a few months or wait a year and ask her out and stay with her forever? (:

Boomer
02-13-2014, 02:41 PM
I'm 15 and I can't have a GF. So, no. Share in my misery...oh wait, I do have a GF...her name is Portia...anyone wanna see a pic of her?

PURPLE585
02-13-2014, 04:04 PM
I would wait 'till you're a bit older.

LittleSirP
02-14-2014, 11:12 AM
Well, she was online awhile ago (On GT), and she ignored me.
She didn't respond yet, but... I dunno. I know now, I have made a grave mistake. THE BOND BECAME AWKWARD.
I wasn't that affected, because I don't have that feeling for her... Yet.
REJECTED
-Little

Cocomonkey
02-14-2014, 11:31 AM
Well, she was online awhile ago (On GT), and she ignored me.
She didn't respond yet, but... I dunno. I know now, I have made a grave mistake. THE BOND BECAME AWKWARD.
I wasn't that affected, because I don't have that feeling for her... Yet.
REJECTED
-Little

Was this whole thing a Gt relationship? O.o

LittleSirP
02-14-2014, 11:33 AM
Was this whole thing a Gt relationship? O.o

No, it was the thing where we actually met in the first place.
-Little

GummiBear64
02-14-2014, 11:41 AM
I was gonna ask someone out on Valentines...I had to have the day off :3