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Tifa
03-26-2014, 03:52 AM
As i grow older, i realize how important it is to have less friends, and more important to have real friends. If someone wants to be in your life, they will make an obvious effort to, without having to ask for something in return.

Im saying this out of my real life experience, not just in game so don't think I'm pointing my finger at you :D

A definition of a friend to me is a person that listens to you, smiles, and agrees with most of what you say. They try to always be there for you when they can.

What are the characteristics you look for in a good friend?

COLTONROCKO
03-26-2014, 03:55 AM
Everything you said and someone who won't leave me...

When I was like 5th grade, I had this friend.. and he left me for this other guy...

I was to mad/depressed..

Oh, Life goes on..

neola
03-26-2014, 06:05 AM
Someone that can understand you especially when you are in lowest point and not afraid of telling the truth to you.
In other words, real person to you.

Luminesce
03-26-2014, 07:01 AM
A Friend,

Someone:
To laugh with

Have fun with

Who understands you

Respects you

Will not judge you

Will be around during your time of need

To share things with

You can trust

You enjoy being around, and enjoys being with you

You can feel connected to

Who cares for you, and what you believe.

To me,
This is a true friend.
And they are hard to come by, but you will eventually find them :)

Liammagoo
03-26-2014, 07:16 PM
I look for someone trustworthy, loyal and always there to help you.

Tifa
03-26-2014, 10:34 PM
You can start finding these friends by "meeting them half way", be that person they look for too. After all guys, you can't always be expecting people to be the way you want them to be. :sweatdrop:

If you want to keep those friends, a great way is to stay close with them, say hello to them very often, don't sit and wait for them to be the one to start a conversation with you all the time. You may think it's dumb and not appropriate but it isn't when you have no friends.

imbabe
03-26-2014, 10:39 PM
Hmm, A "Friend" is a person who you can count on anything with

A friend is someone who stands up for you

A friend is someone who doesn't spread fake rumors about you

A friend is someone who you can trust anything with

A friend is someone who influences you positively

Megazork
03-26-2014, 10:45 PM
I think a true friend is

-Someone who accepts you as a friend not for your materialistic things or status

-Someone who knows to rebuke you when you are doing wrong

-Someone who doesn't influence you in a negative way

-Someone that always encourages to try your best and be yourself

-Someone that would willingly go out their way to help you

-Someone that appreciates your friendship

-Someone who looks at things in a positive and realistic way

-Someone you empathize with and can trust deeply

-Someone, if you had a strong bond and was broken, would be missed

imbabe
03-26-2014, 10:50 PM
I think a true friend is

-Someone who accepts you as a friend not for your materialistic things or status

-Someone who knows to rebuke you when you are doing wrong

-Someone who doesn't influence you in a negative way

-Someone that always encourages to try your best and be yourself

-Someone that would willingly go out their way to help you

-Someone that appreciates your friendship

-Someone who looks at things in a positive and realistic way

-Someone you empathize with and can trust deeply

-Someone, if you had a strong bond and was broken, would be missed

I really wish I had a friend like this one ^^^

Megazork
03-26-2014, 10:53 PM
I really wish I had a friend like this one ^^^

Friends with those kinds of traits are more valuable than anything in the world

darkhawk
03-27-2014, 03:33 AM
- When you fall, instead of them helping you up, they yell, "DOGGIE PILE"

Nuff' said.

Triforce
03-27-2014, 05:39 AM
Well, that's fabulous. In this case, I have no friends. Nor am I a good one. I never agree with anyone on everything.

Hieu8102
03-27-2014, 05:51 AM
Friends. FrIeNdS. If you say friends so many times it weird.

F - Funny. Having someone to always laugh with.

R - Real. They be real with you.

I - Include. They always try to include you in an activity.

E - Ear. They always get what your saying.

N - Nice. They are nice and treat you well.

D - Dream. They're like dreams. They can't all be perfect.

S - Super. They're not perfect ^^ but they know how to make you smile.

I have a best friend. He is all of these words. He understands me.

I think getting a friend is..hard in a way. It's not easy getting a friend because you can't always trust everybody, but when you do..that's a friend. :D

Never let your friends do stupid things...alone.

Tifa
03-27-2014, 05:58 AM
Well, that's fabulous. In this case, I have no friends. Nor am I a good one. I never agree with anyone on everything.

I understand what you feel about having friends, but you have to think about it, there are lots of advantages when you have friends. They make life much more easier and definitely more interesting. They help you through things you are in, like trouble or depression. They notice things about you and they point out those changes, to you help you in a good way of course. Believe me, don't think having friends will slow you down.

Also i never said you have to agree with everything your friends say,
agrees with most of what you say
And yes, friends go through disagreements and arguements but think of it as a test, your friendship will only grow.